Now is the time to begin loving yourself!
Reflecting upon the holidays shows me that many of us are feeling the need to perform. Performance is when a person behaves in a particular way for another group of people. The phone ringing off the hook for counseling proves all the anxiety exhibited during this time. The reason for so much performance is because we consider our true self as unworthy.
The fear of intimacy is a big indicator that a person does not have love for himself.